There is no single number. Each part of you heals on its own clock. Here is what is typical for each one, and what you can do to move it along.
Most of the recovery happens in the first twelve weeks. Week one is the catheter. Then the leaking starts, and then it slowly gets better as you train the muscle that controls it.
Bladder control improves significantly for most men within three to six months. Full activity usually returns around twelve weeks. Erections recover slowly, over a much longer period.
Some men recover faster. Some take longer. Both are normal. Your surgeon's instructions come first, always.
Most men keep the catheter for seven to fourteen days. Your surgeon will give you the exact plan.
Walk ten to fifteen minutes, two or three times a day. Rest. Stay hydrated. No lifting. Do not strain on the toilet. No pelvic floor exercises yet.
Walking starts right away. Lifting waits. Most men are back to light activity at four to six weeks and to full activity around twelve weeks, with their doctor's clearance.
As a general timeline, light weights under twenty pounds come in around weeks six to eight and go up gradually from weeks eight to twelve, once your surgeon has cleared you. If an exercise makes you leak, the load is too much for now.
The leaking starts the day the catheter comes out. Most men leak at first and some leak a lot. How much you leak in the first days says very little about where you end up.
Four to eight pads a day is common in weeks three and four. Most men are down to one to three by weeks nine and ten, and one to two by three months.
Most men see significant improvement within three to six months, and many are pad-free by six months. A small percentage take up to twelve months.
The muscle does not get stronger by waiting. It gets stronger with training.
Putting and chipping come first, around week six. Half swings around week eight. Full swings around weeks ten to twelve.
Light jogging is usually introduced between weeks eight and twelve, after you can walk briskly for thirty minutes with very little leaking.
If an activity makes you leak, you are not ready for it yet. That does not mean never. It means the pelvic floor needs more time.
The nerves that control erections run along the sides of the prostate. Even with a nerve-sparing surgery they are stretched and bruised, and they heal slowly.
Erections may start returning between months two and six, and improvement continues through eighteen months. If they have not started returning by six months, ask your urologist about options.
The pelvic floor plays a direct part in erections, so the same training that helps you stay dry helps here too.
Walk from the first week. Start pelvic floor exercises once the catheter is out and your doctor clears you. Do them correctly and every day. Return to activity in stages.
Squeeze first, then cough. Squeeze, then stand. Squeeze, then lift. Every pressure moment in your day becomes practice.
Doing more repetitions than the plan calls for does not speed it up. A tired pelvic floor is a weak pelvic floor.
If nothing has improved by about week eight, see a pelvic floor physical therapist. You may need someone to check that you are using the right muscles.
Dr. Meg Cochran, DPT shows the Knack, the squeeze you do right before a cough, a sneeze, or standing up.
Then you have a head start. Learn the muscle now, while nothing hurts. Training the pelvic floor before surgery is associated with fewer pads sooner, and most men are never told to do it.
Start here: Exercises to Do Before Prostate Surgery.
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Dr. Meg Cochran is a licensed Doctor of Physical Therapy specializing in pelvic floor rehabilitation, and treats men after prostate surgery through Where You Are Physical Therapy in Oxford, Mississippi.
This article is educational and is not medical advice, a diagnosis, or a substitute for in-person care. Follow your surgical team's instructions. If you have urgent symptoms including severe pain, fever, unexpected bleeding, or a sudden change in function, contact your healthcare provider.
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